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Courtney Gilmore's avatar

I love this title! I remember my mom saying that exact thing when I was a kid. Also funny you talk about getting behind slow drivers because I remember her saying one day “am I the only one who has anywhere to be?” Ha. You are right that we want people to be understanding towards us but we get frustrated with them. I was rude at the grocery store the other day about how “slow” the quick self check is because of all its prompts. Later I felt so ashamed of my witness when I was irritated and mumbling. Thanks for the reminder.

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Kate Dreston's avatar

We've all been there. I get impatient so easily and yet, I want patience from others so often. It's definitely a struggle. Thanks so much for reading and commenting, it's great to hear from people!

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Stacey L Pardoe's avatar

This is speaking straight to my heart, Kate! Thanks, as always!

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Kasey's avatar

Thanks for this beautiful reminder.

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nancyaruegg.com's avatar

You are so right, Kate: "It is easier to be patient when we have empathy and compassion for others." I'm so thankful that my parents taught me empathy--to put myself in the other person's shoes. NOT that I've always responded with perfect patience as an adult, but their training certainly helped!

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Kate Dreston's avatar

Now it seems the world wants to teach the kids to think of themselves first, to make sure you get all you are entitled to, etc. I appreciate you reading and being a part of the conversation!

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Jim McCraigh's avatar

Thanks... I tend to be a pretty impatient person! Okay... very impatient.

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Kate Dreston's avatar

haha - me too!

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Intercessor Todd's avatar

Thanks for reminding me: when we realize the Lord's patience with us, we grow in patience with others. I also find praying for others needs produces a patience in me I didn't know I needed.

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Kate Dreston's avatar

so true about praying for others.

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Michelle Adams's avatar

Boy, I needed this reminder, today.

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Noelle S (Jennifer Incognito)'s avatar

I really needed that prayer yesterday, when I failed miserably at patience. Thank you and Amen.

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Kate Dreston's avatar

That's why I'm so glad His mercies are new every morning. Today is a new day to reset and do better! Thankfully we have a God who is forgiving!

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Jason A Clark's avatar

My patience has grown as I've gotten older. I've had to actively work at it though. It sure came in handy when my kids were little!

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Kate Dreston's avatar

For me, as I've gotten older, my patience gets smaller. I have to work harder at it.

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Jason A Clark's avatar

I can see that too. I think I have more patience with my loved ones but struggle when dealing with things like traffic or selfish people. I won't pretend that I have it all worked out yet! We're all works in progress.

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Kiana Alejandra's avatar

Great reminder Kate!

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