Sadly, the subject which you have so eloquently described is all too common. I have found that the more I pray for the person who has alienated themselves from me without cause, the less anger, resentment or bitterness I feel towards them whether or not the relationship is ever restored.
I agree, praying for them really helps. It's hard to hold onto bad feelings when we pray for them and truly wish God's hand upon their lives. Thanks for your good words.
I have to keep going perhaps it's because l am a believer . It's so sad for them l wish life was better and not as much evil for good people.Kindness is good .l know now l cant fix other people only myself and pray for protection for my loved ones.Were not the the Walton's.
Thank you for sharing your painful story, you point others to Jesus through it. I'm sorry for your hurt and pain, I'm so glad that you found God and He has brought you through so much! You are right, we don't always get the outcome we desire but God's plan is always best.
I can definitely relate to this. I got to the point where I had to ask the Lord to love this family member through me because I didn't have the desire nor capacity to do so. It was almost immediate. The anger and hatred I had against this family member dissipated. And I found myself praying for their well-being, rather than their demise. My relationship with them dramatically improved. So it is possible to have improved relationships with our family. Just not in our strength, but through the strength of Jesus.
It’s hard when one needs to step away to be safe. Personality disorders and potentially criminal behavior.
I pray daily for that family member, and take much comfort in our heavenly reunion one day.
Yes, when someone must be estranged due to their safety, it's extremely difficult.
God will bring healing one day, and I so look forward to that.
Thank you, Kate, for your post. It’s much needed.
Sadly, the subject which you have so eloquently described is all too common. I have found that the more I pray for the person who has alienated themselves from me without cause, the less anger, resentment or bitterness I feel towards them whether or not the relationship is ever restored.
I agree, praying for them really helps. It's hard to hold onto bad feelings when we pray for them and truly wish God's hand upon their lives. Thanks for your good words.
It’s a broken world. We all deal with it to a certain extent.
unfortunately, that's true.
I’ve copied and pasted this to my phone notes incase I need to look back at it quickly! Thank You again!
I look at these verses often. It's a constant struggle for me. Glad it was helpful!
So good! Thank you!!
I have to keep going perhaps it's because l am a believer . It's so sad for them l wish life was better and not as much evil for good people.Kindness is good .l know now l cant fix other people only myself and pray for protection for my loved ones.Were not the the Walton's.
I know it's painful. That's often how I describe my family - "we're not the Walton's" You are right, we keep going.
Thank you for sharing your painful story, you point others to Jesus through it. I'm sorry for your hurt and pain, I'm so glad that you found God and He has brought you through so much! You are right, we don't always get the outcome we desire but God's plan is always best.
I can definitely relate to this. I got to the point where I had to ask the Lord to love this family member through me because I didn't have the desire nor capacity to do so. It was almost immediate. The anger and hatred I had against this family member dissipated. And I found myself praying for their well-being, rather than their demise. My relationship with them dramatically improved. So it is possible to have improved relationships with our family. Just not in our strength, but through the strength of Jesus.
Well said Ray. There is always hope, even if things look hopeless, God can do anything. Thank you for sharing!