Free Gift Ideas for Mother’s Day

8 ideas that require no money.

Searching for a Mother’s Day gift?

This year, think outside the box!

We are used to thinking of the flower bouquet, pretty card, or shiny trinket.

Maybe shake things up this year - think about what you can give instead of what you can buy.

Five years from now, your mother may not remember the item you bought, but she will likely remember how you made her feel.

Here’s a creative gift list that doesn’t require a credit card!

1. Something to make her feel cherished:

Time for conversation

When was the last time you went beyond small talk?

Have you asked her what she’s excited or worried about these days?

Try asking questions that will help her know you care.

If you are unable to spend time with your mom in the same space, consider calling instead of emailing or texting. Hearing your voice can be valuable.

Your undivided attention

This is a time when you are not looking or answering your phone. Your focus is on her, and you aren’t distracted by everyone else around you.

People feel honored when someone makes eye contact, listens, and engages in conversation.

2. Something she might desperately need:

The gospel

If she is not a believer, share with her the good news about Jesus. If she is a believer, ask her how God is working in her life.

Forgiveness

Have you been holding on to hurt? God wants us to forgive, regardless of who’s at fault. Giving the gift of forgiveness can change the course of your relationship.

Friendship

Many moms don’t feel like a friend. If this is true for you, perhaps it’s time for a change.

3. Something she will remember:

An excursion

Create an experience that will make memories. Make her the center of the event, do something she would enjoy. Maybe it’s a one-on-one experience with you, maybe it involves the whole family.

Cater to what she enjoys, if it’s flowers, visit the botanical gardens. If she enjoys games, play her favorite. If she loves the theater, take her to a show.

4. Something she deserves:

A “Thank you!”

Do not fall into the trap of taking your mom for granted. Gratitude can be expressed in written or verbal form. Providing specific examples means so much more than “Thanks for all you do.”

Express your gratefulness for her:

• help with your family

• teaching you life lessons

• giving good advice

• being patient through the times you wouldn’t take her advice

• never giving up on you

An expression of your feelings.

It’s easy to never get around to saying how we feel. Mother’s Day is the perfect day for those of us who are less emotional and more guarded when it comes to verbalizing our feelings.

Consider telling your mom:

• I am proud of you

• I am glad God chose you to be my mom

• I love you

• I respect you

• You’ve taught me important lessons

Moms want to feel loved and appreciated. Money is not required to meet this need. Don’t misunderstand; it’s not wrong to purchase something for your mother on this special occasion. I just wanted to suggest alternative options for your consideration.

I realize not everyone has a positive relationship with their mother. My challenge is the same, think outside the box this year as you assess your own situation. We never know how many Mother’s Days we have left with them.